Thursday, January 31, 2008

never give up


the trouble with many people is that 
they stop faster then they start.


'lamers' perception





for once, i'm LONG.
*always look on the bright side*

.'lamerz'rule_taiwan.

The happiest people dont necessarily have the best of everything.
They just make the best of everything.

are you making the best of everything?
cos i am.

Choices


Every life has its dark and cheerful hours.
Happiness comes from choosing which to remember.

Wednesday, January 30, 2008

.: empty punk :.



this is BLYTHE.
one thing in common, we look alike. =x


JOY 
is not in things,
it is in us.


Play the right game




PLAY HARD, PLAY SMART.




Positive Attitudes

if you believe you can, YOU CAN.

' The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes. '
- William James, Psychologist

' A successful man is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks others have thrown at him. '
- David Brinkley, TV Journalist


Key Point:

  1. Your Attitude is a Choice.
  2. Your Attitude Determines Your Action.
  3. Your People are a Mirror of Your Attitudes.
  4. Maintaining a Good Attitude is Easier than Regaining one.

Actions to improve Attitudes
  • Feed yourself the right 'food'
  • Achieve goal everyday
  • Write it on your wall

Leadership Lesson

the first person you lead is YOU.

' A man without decision of character can never be said to belong himself... He belongs to whatever can make captivate of him. '
- John Foster, Author

' The first and best victory is to conquer self. '
- Plato, Philosopher


Key Points:
  1. Develop and Follow Your Priorities.
  2. Make a Disciplined Lifestyle Your Goal.
  3. Challenge Your Excuses.
  4. Remove Rewards Until the Job is Done.
  5. Stay Focused on Results.

Actions to improve Self-Discipline
  • sort out priorities
  • list the reasons
  • get rid of excuses

Journey

Arithmetrick

987654321
 87654321
  7654321
   654321
    54321
      4321
321
21
1
________


123456789
12345678
1234567
123456
12345
1234
123
12
1
_________


give your answer quickly without using pen or pencil.
which sum is greater?

Are your gurlfriends running your life?

Unless you learn to recognize the peer pressure in your life it could end up ruling you!

BE SMART.
be the one that influence others.

constantly ask yourself:

' what do i really think bout this issue? '

' am i doing this to please others? '

' am i against my believe, my nature, my judgement? '

Brain Gym

' i cant remember even a small list of things to buy '

' i cant get people's name at heart

' i cant recall where i put my stuff '

' did i lock my car just now? '

' my mind keeps going blank '


many lifestyle factors can have a significant 'memory zapping' effects on your brain.

alcohol
insomnia
smoking
stress
medications


to ensure that you have a fit, well functioning mind,
work out your brain as much as you exercise your body.

JUGGLE IT
PUZZLE YOURSELF
CALL A FRIEND
BE A SKILLSEEKER
EXERCISE
POSTURE & BREATHE

Natural Beauty

make-ups are not essential,

fitness is the real you.

Things to do before 21



  • Add up your karmic, point by doing charity.
  • Tell your parents you love them.
  • Join outdoor activities. Learn to fly, rock climb and bungee jump. Pump your adrenaline before your heart gets too weak to take it.
  • Learn to cook dinner for mom and dad. Time to turn the tables.
  • Join contest. Dont stop until you win sumthing.
  • Learn to swim if you dont know how.
  • Understand the responsibility of owning a credit card.
  • Conquer a phobia. Prove to everyone that fear is not a factor.
  • Start your own saving account if you dont have one.
  • Define your purpose in life.
  • Make a movie. Get a video camera and take things that you love as future memories.

Tuesday, January 29, 2008

Parents Luncheon


Thank you parents for trusting YouthImpact. 

WE APPRECIATE YOU!

unashamed



I am part of the fellowship of the unashamed. I have the Holy Spirit power. The die has been cast. I have stepped over the line. 


The decision has been made. I am a disciple of His and I won't look back, let up , slow down, back away, or be still.


My past is redeemed. My present make sense. My future is secure. I'm done with low living, sight walking, small planning, smooth knees, colourless dreams, tamed visions, mundane talking, cheap living and dwarfed goals.


I no longer need preeminence, prosperity, position, promotions, plaudits, or popularity. I don't have to be right, first, tops, recognized, praised, or rewarded. I lived by faith, lean on HIs presence, walk by patience, lift by prayer and labour by power.


My face is set. My gate is fast. My goal is heaven. My road may be narrow, my way rough, my companions few, but my guide is reliable and my mission is clear. i will not be bought, compromised, detoured, lured away, turned back, deluded or delayed.


I will not flinch in the face of sacrifice or hesitate in the presence of the adversary. I will not negotiate at the table of the enemy, ponder at the pool of popularity, or meander in the maze of mediocrity. 


I won't give up, shut up, or let up until i have stayed up, stored up, prayed up, paid up, and preached up for the cause of Christ.


I am a disciple of Jesus. I must give until I drop, preach until all know, and work until he comes. And when he does come for His own, He'll have no problems recognizing me. My colours will be clear!



.SMILE.

it takes only a smile to make a dark day seems brighter.

peace is not what you strive for,
but what you guard.


Monday, January 28, 2008

a SURE way to Succeed in 2008!

New Year's Resolutions are easy to make, but much harder to make real in the noisy bustle of everyday chores and concerns. As january winds down, so does motivation, energy and desire changed. Humans are lack of strong roots in life. 


don't blame the resolution - its the follow-through.


easy steps to improve life:

1. GET REAL
illogical resolutions will never be kept.

2. MAKE ONLY ONE RESOLUTION
you'll spread yourself too thin to make multiple changes in life. Pick just one aspect and improve it.

3. AVOID REPEATING PREVIOUS RESOLUTION 
its too demoralising to repeat broken resolutions. You could try a different technique to keep it.

4. CREATE A GAME PLAN
write a comprehensive personal plan. the mission and how to achieve it.

5. BE ORGANIZED
get rid of the things you no longer need. Do some good.

6. BREAK IT DOWN and MAKE IT LESS INTIMIDATING
even if you fail reaching your BIG goal, at least you have significant achievement along the way.

7. INCORPORATE WITH YOUR LIFESTYLE
examplestart taking stairs than elevator =)

8. MAKE CONTINGENCY OPTIONS
be prepared with ways to overcome when it hit bumps along the way. 

9. GIVE IT TIME
experts agreed that it takes 21days to create a habit and 6months to be a part of your life.

10. REWARD YOURSELF AT EACH MILESTONE
treat yourself to something special to pump on the next mile.

11. KEEP AN OPEN MIND
embrace changes.

12. SHARE TO A FRIEND
its a support system to attain your goals and also a guilt factor when you are being bad.

13. START A JOURNAL
recognize your positive steps and not turn back to old habits.

14. HAVE FUN DOING IT
breathe new life into them. live a better, healthier, happier life.


* people who explicitly make resolutions are 10times more likely to achieve goals.